Everything You Need to Know About Sex Lubricants

oil-free-sex-lubricant-400x400If you’re wondering whether you might need a lubricant, the answer is probably yes. Women can experience vaginal dryness for varying reasons—from breastfeeding to menopause.

A good lubricant may also save you time and frustration, says Ava Cadell, a sex educator and founder of Loveology University in Los Angeles. “With age—and as frequency of sexual intercourse decreases—the stimulation time required for the body to produce vaginal lubrication may increase.” Lubricants, she says, can help your body feel ready for sex when your mind does—with no lag time in between.

Keep reading to find out which lubes are dos, which are don’ts and which are absolute must-tries.

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He Cheated…I Took Him Back

DontCheatSomeone asked me if my man ever cheated on me could I forgive him. Now that’s one hell of a question. I know me, I am crazy and I will fuck someone up but let me be civil and get to the point of this blog lol. According to scientific studies, men were put here to be fruitful and multiply with as many women as possible. Does that mean as a woman you have to accept that, No! Now I am not saying I agree or disagree with this and I will explain my reasons why. THIS BLOG HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MY PERSONAL LIFE, JUST VOICING MY OPINIONS.

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Sugaring….The Naked Truth

sugarbabiesI’ve been asked to write about this topic many times probably because I’ve been accused of being an escort who’s dating an older man for money so many times it seems natural right? LOL. Anyway, this blog is no way intended to shame, shade, or belittle anyone. Just giving my opinion on the subject….that’s it.

Before we begin you may ask, what is a sugar baby/sugar daddy or what is sugaring? According to the most popular sugar daddy site SeekingArrangement.com, it’s an attractive woman looking for the finer things in life. They appreciate exotic trips and gifts. Sugar Babies get to experience a luxurious lifestyle, and meet wealthy people on a regular basis. Successful men and women who know what they want. They’re driven, and enjoy attractive company by their side. Money isn’t an issue, thus they are generous when it comes to supporting a Sugar Baby.

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Infidelity (Part 5)

“With everything I’ve done for that girl, how could she do this to me?” James says to Ashley as he holds his glass of Hennessy while he grabs her hair as she’s sucking him.
“If it weren’t for me she wouldn’t have that damn shop, and Clarence, fuck him, I’m going to kill him.” He says.
Ashley stops sucking him and looks at him with this I don’t give a fuck look in her face. “I would rather we not discuss this while I’m ummmm….doing this ok?”

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escortsI saw this blog and it immediately caught my attention. (I DID NOT WRITE THE TOPICS BELOW NOR DO I AGREE WITH THE POINTS BEING MADE) It’s funny how people sit around and try to figure out how someone else is living their lives. I do not agree with the points being made, because I’m the type of person who doesn’t judge and could care less about what someone else is doing with their life. What I also found interesting is when pretty girl posts pictures of nice things, she’s automatically an escort or whore? Why do people envy people like this? Why is this always a topic of discussion? And how can you automatically label someone something just by viewing pictures of them, even if you’ve never met them? There are a lot of women who just choose to keep their career private via social media as well. I’m sure a lot of people will disagree or voice the opinions, and guess what, that’s the reason I’m posting this blog. What is your take on this?

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The Email That Almost Ruined Me

email symbol on row of colourful envelopesIt’s been 5 years since the worst day of my life….I think it’s about time I tell this story once and for all and get it out the way. I am in no way shape or form trying to bash anyone, just simply telling my side of the story and to let this be a warning for any young woman out there that may be deciding to make the same mistake I made. The crazy thing about the internet is, once something is on there, it’s there forever, and ever, even after you’re dead and gone…..listen to my story and take it as a learning lesson.

Before you make life changing decisions, THINK, you never know where you’ll be in 5 years. -Sheneka Adams

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Death To The Video Girl….

tumblr_m29lwyUiUV1qjpib8o1_500*This blog is based on my personal experience and my opinions. It’s an educational blog written to share my experiences from being an urban model*
I get asked by women almost every day about how they can get started in the urban modeling world and what tips I have for them. If you REALLY want my honest opinion I say it’s a waste of time and you’re better off working a 9 to 5 getting an actual check for being at work all day than to be on a set all day getting nothing. But in reality I can’t tell someone not to pursue whatever dreams and goals they may have. I’m not one to crush any ones hopes and dreams so I give them whatever advice and tips I have based off my experience from being in the game for several years.

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